In His Own Words
About Him
I’ve never felt entirely comfortable with monogamy, and at this stage of life, I want to experience a non-exclusive relationship. I have a partner. She’s open to the idea of another woman in our lives and sees value in the extended degree of companionship that would result.
We don’t believe that such arrangement will cause the sky to fall down and feel that it actually has a great many real and tangible benefits for all concerned.
That’s it in a nutshell. A second “wife” for me. A companion for my partner. Oupa en twee oumas op die stoep. A menage a trois which, incidentally, does not mean a threesome, but simply means a household of three.
Not that living together is by any means essential but picture the scene: Two women who are friends and man in attendance to serve drinks and in general make both of you feel happy and fulfilled.
Consider also the bigger picture: Enhanced female energy. Supportive male energy. Less control. More freedom. Less isolation. More companionship and support. Matter of fact…all the essential elements of authentic matriarchy. What could be more natural or empowering?
Comes down to just having trust in one’s own judgement and wisdom and not conforming or kowtowing to a patriarchal mainstream relationship model that really doesn’t stand up to objective scrutiny and has more to do with “nurture” than it has to do with the laws of nature.
A more organic relationship would be a fair description. A relationship more closely aligned with biological and evolutionary reality, than dubious ideological concepts that give rise to terms such as soulmate, Prince Charming, Mr Right and the like.
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About His Ideal Match
Romantic delusions aside, human society at large is wildly non-exclusive and cheating is ubiquitous. Furthermore, sexual monogamy is non-existent in nature and by such direct definition alone it is unnatural.
To be clear, I respect the right of everyone to choose monogamy – just as I respect the right of others to choose different relationship platforms in order to find happiness and fulfilment.
Would suit an open-minded woman who would like to explore a more organic form of relationship model in her senior years. One step at a time of course and a simple friendship would be a good place to start.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Kleinmond (Betty's Bay), Western Cape, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
73 | |
Star Sign: |
Aquarius | |
Height: |
175cm (5' 8.9") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Ask me later | |
Eye Colour: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Atheist | |
Relationship Status: |
Ask me later | |
Looking for: |
Friends; Open to possibilities | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Ask me later | |
Occupation: |
Retired | |
Income: |
Ask me later |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Western Cape, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
55 - 85 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Straight |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Body Hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Intelligent; Quiet; Realistic |
Valued Qualities: |
Contentment; Kindness; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A movie; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Classical; Rock |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
Non-fiction |
TV Habits: |
There're several shows I watch regularly |
TV Shows: |
Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Movie Channels; Nature / Wildlife; Sport |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Adult; Comedy; Documentary; Independent |
Interests: |
Cooking; Healthy living; Reading; Writing books |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at Work: |
I'm retired |
Pastimes of choice: |
Doing absolutely nothing |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Turn-ons: |
Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Skinny dipping; Thrill seeking |
Turn-offs: |
Tattoo(s) |
Work Aspirations: |
Fire the boss |
Dream Home: |
Cabin in the mountains |
Religious Attendance: |
Never |
Politics: |
Anarchic |
Retirement Plans: |
Living in a quiet cabin in the woods |
Feelings about using SA Reunited GaySingles: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
