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Cautiously

52 – Bedfordview, Gauteng, South Africa

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Online: More than 6 months ago

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In Her Own Words

About Her

I am an introvert and although i do like a lot of quiet time, i do enjoy socializing with those closest to me. I like balance in general. I love good coffee, and sometimes too much red wine. I love cooking and serving, until the point that i feel its expected of me. I enjoy hiking, markets, gym, library, theatre, and probably many more, but often lack the motivation to get out there. I can seem like a pushover, but my personality is dominant. I have just learned to bring balance, and have no interest in being someones boss. I am generally very direct with things i have a strong opinion on. Sometimes i may just bite my tongue instead of having to take my foot out my mouth later! All depends on the company and if the battle is worth my energy. I am very grey in my thinking and believe there are very few things that are black or white. My personality is melancholic which they usually describe as the best people of the personalities types BUT with the darkest side. Lol! I know myself well and only occasionally do i allow myself into the pitt for a while. I love deeply and long for the type of once in a lifetime intimacy that i believe only few ever experience.

About Her Ideal Match

I am generally attracted to fem/boyish women. Not the extremes of either side.I am also not looking for any type of extreme personality or women with mood disorders that they refuse to cater for. I am however extremely tolerant and understanding, and will work through nearly anything you are willing to WORK THROUGH if i am in a relationship with you. Good character is my number one requirement, but there has to be a naughty side. I am just looking for unwavering principles not extreme opinions.
I want someone that is MY partner. Not their best friends, or their child's, or their mothers. Please do not mistake this as me trying to stop you from having friends, but rather that WE make decisions etc together and move forward in life together, even through possible conflict.

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About Her

Country of Origin:
South Africa
Location:
Bedfordview, Gauteng, South Africa
Gender:
Female
Age:
52
Star Sign:
Libra
Height:
176cm (5' 9.3")
Body Type:
Average
Looks:
Average
Hair Colour:
Changes Often
Eye Colour:
Blue-Green
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home Language:
English
Other Languages:
Afrikaans
Religion:
Christian / Other
Relationship Status:
Single
Looking for:
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage
Have Children:
No
Want Children:
No
Daily Diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
Occasional
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker
Education:
High / secondary school
Occupation:
Other
Income:
Ask me later

About Her Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Anywhere in Gauteng, South Africa
Gender:
Female
Age Range:
36 - 52
Star Sign:
Any
Height:
158cm (5' 2.2") - 190cm (6' 2.8")
Body Type:
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds
Looks:
Above Average; Average; Attractive
Hair Colour:
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Changes Often; Greying
Eye Colour:
Blue; Blue-Green; Brown; Green; Grey; Hazel
Has a Photo:
Decidedly important
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home Language:
Afrikaans; Danish; Dutch; English; French; Gaelic / Irish; German; Italian; Norwegian; Swedish; Other
Other Languages:
Afrikaans; Danish; Dutch; English; French; Gaelic / Irish; German; Italian; Swedish; Other
Religion:
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious
Relationship Status:
Single; Divorced; Widowed
Have Children:
No; Yes, not living with me
Want Children:
No
Daily Diet:
Eat most things; Eat healthily
Smoking:
Non-Smoker; Occasional; Regular; Trying to Quit; E-cigarette User
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker
Education:
Any
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Struggling; Solvent; Enough; Comfortable
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

More About Her

More Physical Characteristics
Hair Style:
Medium; Straight
Eyesight:
I sometimes wear glasses
HIV Status:
Negative
Personality
Sense of Humour:
Witty
Ruled by:
The head
Party Behaviour:
An impartial observer
Personality Traits:
Cautious; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Quiet; Realistic; Stable
Valued Qualities:
Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control
Fashion Sense:
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans)
Favourite Clothing:
My trusty pair of jeans
Favourite Colour:
Green
Leisure & Entertainment
Date Activities:
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach
Music Preferences:
Alternative; Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Folk; Jazz; Pop / Top 40; Reggae; Rock; World
Reading:
I enjoy it
Books:
Best-sellers; Crime; Fantasy; Horror; Mystery; Sci-Fi; Self-help; Travel
TV Shows:
Action / Adventure; Documentaries; Educational; Movie Channels; Nature / Wildlife; Sci-Fi; Sport
Movie Frequency:
Never
Movie Preferences:
Comedy; Cult Classics; Drama; Horror; Mystery
Interests:
Card games; Computer & video games; Cooking; Gambling; Gardening; Healthy living; Making Music; Meditation; Reading; Surfing the Internet
Food
Cooking:
I really enjoy cooking
Food:
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Gastro Pub; Indian; Pub Grub; Thai; Vietnamese
Go Out to Eat:
I only eat out on special occasions
Dietary Restrictions:
I have none
More Lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Go with the flow
Time Online:
I'm on for an hour or two a day
Take Drugs:
Not any more
Family Size:
I've lost count
Family Closeness:
We're average
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Willing to Relocate:
For the right person, to the moon!
Likes & Dislikes
Animals:
I love my pet(s)
Pets (Have):
Dog(s)
Pets (Like):
Bird(s); Cat(s); Fish; Horse(s)
Pets (Dislike):
Rodent(s)
Turn-ons:
Erotica; Intelligence; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s)
Turn-offs:
Power; Sarcasm
The Deep Stuff
Work Aspirations:
Find new, more meaningful work
Dream Home:
Beach house
Religious Attendance:
I'm non-practicing
Politics:
I have no interest in politics
Retirement Plans:
Sipping margaritas on a beach
Feelings about using SA Reunited GaySingles:
Hopeful; Curious; Jaded
Honesty:
Extremely