In Her Own Words
About Her
I am an introvert and although i do like a lot of quiet time, i do enjoy socializing with those closest to me. I like balance in general. I love good coffee, and sometimes too much red wine. I love cooking and serving, until the point that i feel its expected of me. I enjoy hiking, markets, gym, library, theatre, and probably many more, but often lack the motivation to get out there. I can seem like a pushover, but my personality is dominant. I have just learned to bring balance, and have no interest in being someones boss. I am generally very direct with things i have a strong opinion on. Sometimes i may just bite my tongue instead of having to take my foot out my mouth later! All depends on the company and if the battle is worth my energy. I am very grey in my thinking and believe there are very few things that are black or white. My personality is melancholic which they usually describe as the best people of the personalities types BUT with the darkest side. Lol! I know myself well and only occasionally do i allow myself into the pitt for a while. I love deeply and long for the type of once in a lifetime intimacy that i believe only few ever experience.
About Her Ideal Match
I am generally attracted to fem/boyish women. Not the extremes of either side.I am also not looking for any type of extreme personality or women with mood disorders that they refuse to cater for. I am however extremely tolerant and understanding, and will work through nearly anything you are willing to WORK THROUGH if i am in a relationship with you. Good character is my number one requirement, but there has to be a naughty side. I am just looking for unwavering principles not extreme opinions.
I want someone that is MY partner. Not their best friends, or their child's, or their mothers. Please do not mistake this as me trying to stop you from having friends, but rather that WE make decisions etc together and move forward in life together, even through possible conflict.
What Her Friends Say
Cautiously hasn't asked any friends to write a recommendation yet.
About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Bedfordview, Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
51 | |
Star Sign: |
Libra | |
Height: |
176cm (5' 9.3") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Changes Often | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Occasional | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
High / secondary school | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Ask me later |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Gauteng, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
36 - 52 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
158cm (5' 2.2") - 190cm (6' 2.8") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Changes Often; Greying | ||
Eye Colour: |
Blue; Blue-Green; Brown; Green; Grey; Hazel | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; Danish; Dutch; English; French; Gaelic / Irish; German; Italian; Norwegian; Swedish; Other | ||
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; Danish; Dutch; English; French; Gaelic / Irish; German; Italian; Swedish; Other | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
No; Yes, not living with me | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional; Regular; Trying to Quit; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Struggling; Solvent; Enough; Comfortable |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Medium; Straight |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
HIV Status: |
Negative |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Quiet; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Green |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Folk; Jazz; Pop / Top 40; Reggae; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
Best-sellers; Crime; Fantasy; Horror; Mystery; Sci-Fi; Self-help; Travel |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Documentaries; Educational; Movie Channels; Nature / Wildlife; Sci-Fi; Sport |
Movie Frequency: |
Never |
Movie Preferences: |
Comedy; Cult Classics; Drama; Horror; Mystery |
Interests: |
Card games; Computer & video games; Cooking; Gambling; Gardening; Healthy living; Making Music; Meditation; Reading; Surfing the Internet |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Gastro Pub; Indian; Pub Grub; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Not any more |
Family Size: |
I've lost count |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Erotica; Intelligence; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s) |
Turn-offs: |
Power; Sarcasm |
Work Aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Religious Attendance: |
I'm non-practicing |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Sipping margaritas on a beach |
Feelings about using SA Reunited GaySingles: |
Hopeful; Curious; Jaded |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
